Once again, I’ve been through a busy period and I have not managed to sit down and write once a week like I used to. I miss writing on here, but at the same time I have other stuff taking my attention to a greater degree. Time to change that—or so I will try.
Actually, that is somewhat of a lie.
What? You lied to us? How dare you.
It was only for about 5 seconds; I am sure you will forgive me.
To be honest, the fact that I hadn’t been able to find a short amount of time made me ponder, and I realized something: it is not that I didn’t have the time, but rather that I did not make the time. (As I write this, this TED talk comes to mind. Laura talks about how we create excuses making ourselves believe we don’t have the free time we desire, when really we simply don’t take and make the time.)
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This thinking made me realize that I was prioritizing other stuff over writing—I have always had trouble sticking to 2-3 things, so I am not surprised. I am trying to have a perspective shift and make the time to be able to sit down at my computer, write to myself, to you, once a week—I have too often set a goal that is too high, and not achieved it. Hence, I prefer targeting a goal of once a week instead of multiple times a week. My goal is to write every Monday. If I write another day over and above Monday, so be it. It makes sense for me to target once a week, seeing as I already had trouble keeping up with writing once a week in the past few months.
If I think about my typical week, I see how much free time I truly have and how I can easily throw some of it away, whether it be through my cellphone or other mediums. It all comes down to organization and the realization that we have much more time than we think.
Since I got back from a camping trip last Monday, I have been using my cellphone significantly less, and that has already made a big difference. When I think about it, I was looking at my phone so many times a day when there was nothing to check on it; it was mostly by habit.
And so, above I mentioned some of the things that crossed my mind during the last few weeks, and they seem to have been slightly insightful.
How humble of you to insert the world slightly.
How about you? Do you feel similar sometimes? Do you feel like you lack free time?